Father's Day

I'm struggling for words to express what is in my mind this Father's day.

It is the first Father's day after my Dad has passed away. While we were reconciled these last three years, it wasn't always like that. Dad was "cantankerous" to say the least and for many years we didn't really talk or know each other.

I think a person's legacy is truly in the way people remember them, if that is the case I'll remember my father as he was in the last 3 years. I won't go into the details, those really are just family business but he changed and grew.

I was glad my kids had a chance to get to know him and learn a little about him. We didn't get to spend enough time with him as a family, I don't know if there is ever enough time for that.

Dad left many legacies, mostly memories -good and bad but few possessions as legacies. Some computer equipment that will last a few years at most, some records and stereo equipment from decades ago, some photographs that need to be scanned and a couple of firearms. Out of all those, the firearms are going to last the longest. The firearms will be something that years from now that I can use to tell my kids, and my kids can tell theirs and on.

To honor my father today...here is one of those lasting legacies.


Ruger GP-100 with a 3 inch barrel

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It was through this firearm that I learned how Dad spent some of his time. When he moved to Mississippi, he took up hunting again. I learned how he enjoyed spending time with several of my cousins, I learned about them while listening to his hunting stories.

Through this firearm, I came to know more about my father; his joys, his family, his stories, his passion.....not a bad legacy is it?

Dad, we miss you.

To all the Fathers out there, I hope that you enjoy the day and especially your family.